Healing and the Reunification of Family

Michelle Guymon

Director of Aftercare and Policy Findingkids.org

Based on decades of experience, I've seen how the trauma suffered by a child who has gone missing or been exploited can disrupt family dynamics. Parents often experience feelings of guilt, helplessness, anger, depression and failure, while siblings may feel confused and neglected. Therapy provides crucial support, helping families manage their emotional well-being and aiding in the child's recovery. I've seen family therapy rebuild relationships, improve communication, and address each member's emotional needs, helping families re-establish safe and loving routines.

I've also spoken with parents who struggle with the profound changes in their child after exploitation, which can be challenging and impact the dynamics of the entire family. If a child feels too overwhelmed by the differences upon their return home, it can sometimes be a factor that tempts them to leave their families again. 

Therapy provides a safe space for the entire family to restore trust, process their feelings, understand and manage emotions, while developing coping strategies. It fosters a supportive environment essential for the child's healing, and through psychoeducation, it empowers families to provide appropriate support and in some cases, recognize generational patterns of abuse. Healing from exploitation is a long-term process. This professional support helps families navigate setbacks and celebrate progress, ensuring sustained recovery for the child and their families.